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Marcus Matthews • 1 January 2025

80% of people abandon their New Year's resolutions by February - Here's Why

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In 2020 I was working with Marisa Peer one of the world's leading hypnotherapists as one of her core team of trainers in London.

I can't remember what we were discussing but Marisa gave me the best bit of advice, over a cup of coffee.

She said "Marcus everything is energy so if you ever get stuck change the problem to the word energy".

A Guide to Amplifying Your Energy in 2025

As the new year begins, many of us feel the pull to make resolutions and set goals. Yet, studies show that 80% of New Year’s resolutions are abandoned by February.

Why? Often, it’s because we set unrealistic goals, lack a clear plan, or lose motivation. But what if we approached the new year differently?

Instead of making traditional resolutions, let’s focus on understanding where your energy comes from and where it goes. By reflecting on your needs, values, boundaries, and environments, you can set yourself up for success and avoid the burnout that comes with misplaced efforts.

Here’s a framework to guide you:


What Do I Need?


Take a moment to assess your physical, emotional, and mental needs. Success begins with understanding what truly fuels you.


Why Do I Need It?  Your needs are the foundation of your well-being. If your body craves rest, your mind needs focus, or your heart longs for connection, ignoring these signals leads to depletion.


Ask yourself: What will fulfilling this need unlock for me in 2025?

What Are My Values, and Why Are They Important?


Values are your compass—they guide where and how you invest your energy. Maybe you value growth, connection, or creativity.


Why Does This Matter?
  When your actions align with your values, you feel a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Misalignment, however, drains you and can lead to frustration or resentment.

Reflect on:


Where did I spend my time and energy in 2024, does anything need to change?

What brought me connection and joy?

What took away connection and joy?

What Boundaries Do I Need to Put in Place and Why?


Boundaries protect your energy. Without them, you risk overextending yourself or falling into patterns that don’t serve you.


Why Is This Important for My Energy?


Every time you say “yes” to something that doesn’t align with your needs or values, you say “no” to something that does.

Setting boundaries isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for sustaining your energy and focus.


Ask:
Where did I lose energy in 2024, and what boundary could have prevented that?

What Environments Take My Energy, and What Environments Give Me Energy?


Your surroundings shape your energy. Think about the physical, social, and emotional spaces you frequent.


Energy-Draining Environments:

  • Negative or toxic relationships
  • Chaotic or cluttered spaces
  • Overly demanding or unstructured routines


Energy-Boosting Environments:

  • Supportive communities
  • Organised and calm spaces
  • Routines that balance work and rest
  • Reflect: Where should I invest my energy in 2025? Where should I avoid losing it?

Shift the Focus: Forget Resolutions—Ask Yourself These Questions


Before you make a resolution, ask:

  1. How will this goal give me more energy, and why is that important to me?
  2. In 2025, how can I amplify my energy?
  3. In 2025, what can I avoid to preserve my energy?

Often we set resolutions based on sociatal expectations rather than persona needs. Resolutions are more than goals—they’re opportunities to align your energy with your purpose.

The Result - Message from a client Dec' 2024

Need Support?


Sometimes, navigating these questions alone can feel overwhelming. That’s where a mentor, coach, or therapist can help. But finding the right support matters.

Many fear wasting their time, money, and energy on someone who doesn’t deliver results.

Here’s my promise: I don’t just guide you—I amplify your investment beyond your expectations.

Ready to Fast-Track Your Success in 2025?


Here’s how to get started:

  1. Book a Free, No-Obligation Consultation.
    Let’s explore how I can help you transform your energy and achieve your goals.

  2. Watch My FREE Positive Mindset Webinar.
    Discover the key to staying motivated and energised in 2025.

  3. Join the FREE 2025 Masterclasses.
    Partner with myself and Ruth Tansey to learn strategies for amplifying your success. In-person Masterclasses are being run in Stockport, online Masterclasses TBC

Let’s make 2025 the year you thrive—not just survive.

Book your consultation today, and let’s turn your energy into momentum.

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