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Breaking the Cycle: How Unresolved Challenges Shape Future Generations

Marcus Matthews • 4 December 2023

We are the guardians to the next generations wellbeing - be the example

Parents Teaching Children
As parents, teachers and social beings our responsibility is to ensure the next generation are stronger healthier and fitter than us.


Understanding the Legacy of Emotional Baggage

As an award-winning clinical hypnotherapist and life transformation coach, I've seen countless lives transformed by understanding and addressing the emotional challenges that plague our daily existence. It's a harsh reality, but the unresolved issues, blocks, and emotions we carry not only affect us but also have a profound impact on our children and those who look up to us.

Let's explore this under-discussed topic with empathy and insight, offering a way forward for those ready to make a change.


The Silent Inheritance


Breaking the cycle of Anxiety and depression

It's not just wealth or physical traits we pass down to our children; it's also our fears, insecurities, and unresolved emotional issues. Children are incredibly perceptive. They absorb not just our words but our behaviours, attitudes, and even our unspoken feelings.

This absorption becomes the foundation of their own emotional health. If we, as parents or role models, consistently exhibit avoidance of our emotional challenges, we inadvertently teach the next generation to do the same.


The Ripple Effect

The impact doesn't stop at home. Our unresolved issues can ripple out into our communities. People who admire or look up to us may emulate our avoidance behaviours, perpetuating a cycle of emotional evasion. This cycle can lead to a society where emotional inauthenticity is the norm, impacting relationships, mental health, and overall well-being.

As a former police officer it was clear to me that trauma at all levels has a social impact and on my own journey and that of my clients it is never the known that drives our emotions, but the unknown small traumas encoded at a very early age.

To quote Dr. Edmond Locard, a forensic science pioneer in France, who formulated the theory that states, “Every contact leaves a trace”.

This became known as Locard's exchange principle and is the basis for all forensic science as we know it today.

This doesn't just apply to physical items or interactions but psychological ones to.

Who we are as adults is a direct result of the environments and experiences we have as children, and those trauma's, beliefs and emotions will be past on unless you get to understand why they are there to help you, not hold you back.


The Hard Truth

It's a tough pill to swallow, but avoiding our emotional challenges doesn't make them disappear. Instead, they fester and sometimes grow, affecting our mental health and quality of life. More importantly, this avoidance becomes a model for those around us, especially the younger generation, setting them up for a similar struggle.

The mind loves what is familiar and does not understand good or bad, right or wrong.

All mental health good or bad is a perception and choice based on connection through societal conditioning.

If you don't respond and take back your power then you become a battery in someone else's life.

Be under no illusion that you are either powering your life or you are the battery fuelling someone else's.


A Beacon of Hope

However, it's not all doom and gloom. The beauty of this situation is that change is possible, and it doesn't have to be a long, drawn-out process. Our subconscious mind is a powerful tool, holding the answers to many of our emotional challenges. By tapping into this resource, we can begin to unravel the knots of our past and present issues.


The Key to Unlocking a Beautiful Life

I've dedicated my career to helping individuals unlock the secrets of their subconscious minds. Once I believed that change wasn't possible. 

Now I know I am the key to the change I want to see in the world.

You can take back control and  start to understand and address the root causes of our emotional blocks. This journey is not just about healing ourselves; it's about breaking a cycle and laying a foundation for a healthier, more emotionally intelligent future generation.


A Call to Action

The message here is clear: understanding our emotional challenges with new perspectives and using challenges as fuel is not just a personal journey; it's a legacy we leave behind. It's time to confront our emotional blocks with courage and determination. Remember, the subconscious mind holds the key, and as a Life Transformation Coach I have the key.

I am here to guide you through this transformative journey. Let's work together to create a more beautiful life, not just for ourselves, but for those who follow in our footsteps.


Remember, your journey to emotional wellness is a powerful act of love, not just for yourself, but for generations to come. Reach out, take that first step, and let's embark on this journey together.

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