When logic and emotion collide, emotion always wins but we try to use logic to work it out.
The mind believes, these feelings we create have some role, function, purpose or intention to help you.
These thoughts and feelings are often locked away in the vault of the unconscious mind, filed away, only to submerge when the mind thinks we need notifying.
Often these feelings are the feelings created by us as a child, our inner child.
So imagine the Operating system you use everyday is Windows 95, the foundation of your life, but you want to run programmes in your life that are only compatible with Windows 10.
The programmes may not install, or it may cause your operating system to crash.
This is why talking about issues doesn’t always work, because the issue is deeper than our conscious thoughts, we are only aware of them through feelings which we often find difficult to dencode.
Like a computer virus, rejection is installed and passed on by those who want us to stay connected with them. As parents, teachers we don't practice social distancing with our thoughts, we believe our path is right and we force people down that path and even if we don't feel it is right, many of us conform, follow the path chosen for us, because if we don't we will be rejected.
So we inject the vaccine of projection, telling everyone we are OK, we self medicate using our ego to fit in and stay alive, whilst inside the virus is growing, but we can't tell anyone, rejected, different.
Do you know how to debug the operating system on a computer?
Do you have the skills to upgrade the Bios on your laptop?
How about writing a new Kernel in Linux?
Do you understand what those last questions even mean?
If your computer programming was broken, if your PC was running slow, you would get an expert in.
But you won’t do that for the single most powerful thing that controls your whole reality,
your mind.
During lock down more people are suffering because their environment has become unfamiliar, people are literally going into survival mode.
This virus is replicated through your thoughts and feelings, the most dangerous virus at the moment are the negative thoughts, the fear, the lack of connection, these are far more dangerous than you know.
This survival instinct is then accelerated through social media, politics –
why?
If you control the heard, you control the virus, but if you go inside to find out why you feel the way you do, that gives you
choice, knowledge, power.
When you have knowledge and power you become a threat.
You become more powerful than the virus being injected in you.
Your immunity increases.
You start to see the inner child playing out, you see the broken code in others.
You no longer need the tribe to survive, the virus of humanity, but you will attract those who also see the code.
You don't need to feed on the host, you don't need to spread, you can survive easily, effortlessly.
Traditional coping and managing techniques will show you how to respond or take action, like taking a pill to subdue a fever, but what if you went one stage lower and asked:
“Why do I feel the way I do?”
“Are the stories I am telling myself true?”
“I don’t like those feelings, what are they telling me?”
Maybe you know the answer, but how long have you had that feeling, how long has your subconscious mind been saying “Your rejecting me and I know the answer so we can reconnect”.
Your feelings are created in your subconscious mind and to understand them you need an expert.
We look to doctors, scientist, politicians for the answers, we look outwardly and blame others for the way that we feel.
You don’t need a degree or PhD, you don’t need to look to others to tell you how to fix that, you need to go inside.
So don’t look outwardly for why you are being rejected and look inward to find the answers.
I believe everyone should live a fulfilled and happy life and by removing those destructive feelings you attach to the stories you tell yourself everyday and installing and upgrading those feelings to represent who you are as an adult, not the programming of the inner child. I help you break free and I can achieve in one session what most therapists and coaches fail to do in a lifetime.
So learn to accept yourself, because when you do that you will never be rejected again and you mind and body will heal and you will create the immune system that nature designed, not the one created in a lab.
