When You Are Ready To Make Real Change - I Will Show You How

Who did Kerry Katona use for her mental health - Marcus Matthews Make Your Life count

"Struggling with anxiety and burn out?"

"Tried Everything and Still No Results?"


Discover mind mentoring and hypnotherapy for high performers.


"
Honest to God This Guy is Amazing" - UK celebrity Kerry Katona

Book a free consultation today!

Free Consultation - BOOK Today

The worlds secret pandemic - the virus we refuse to get a vaccine for

Marcus Matthews • 14 August 2020

Vaccines are made by taking viruses or bacteria and weakening them so that they can't reproduce (or replicate) themselves 

THE HIDDEN PANDEMIC YOU CAN’T GET AN INJECTION FOR

Let’s look at how the world is dealing with this global pandemic. Covering up, projecting fear, restricting residence to new ideas and formulas to help people build healthy minds.


Projection is the tool to either empower or dis-empower you and it has been happening all your life.

A vaccine is only as powerful as the body that can take it, so when we look at the projection of fear in the world right now, those with a healthy mind are more likely to thrive.


Whilst those who CHOOSE negativity, fear, rejection are more likely to be suffering, whether mentally or physically.


You see viruses spread when they are fed and accepted by their host and your mind is no different.


It doesn’t matter if that infection is Covid, a bad habit like smoking, maybe feelings of self-worth or you are in a job which is unfulfilling and gives you no pleasure or purpose. You stay stuck because you fear changing, often because of money or other peoples opinions, or maybe you just don't understand why you feel the way you do.

Whatever the issue good or bad, one thing is true, every thought creates a physical reaction and we then project that feeling outward – but have you ever asked WHY?



MAKE CONNECTION – AVOID REJECTION

Viruses want to replicate because they want to survive, we are no different.

Take our immune system: It protects your body from harmful substances, germs and cell changes that could make you ill. It is made up of various organs, cells and proteins.


If it stops working properly – because it is weak or can't fight back you get ill.


Without an immune system, we would have no way to fight harmful things that enter our body from the outside or harmful changes that occur inside our body.


We accept that and know that diet, exercise and feeding our body creates a health immune system to fight physical infection.

Whether you agree or not vaccines also help build physical immunity. So where is the vaccine for those negative thoughts, well a legal one anyway?

Mental Immunity

Any physical symptoms are either driven by or created by an emotional response. We look outwardly to find a fix, however, unlike a broken leg, a broken mind, heart, a feeling can’t be seen, it is felt. It is created and it is created by you and then you manifest that feeling, by projecting it into your reality.

The majority of therapist are empaths, they want to heal, but the answers to the healing can’t be found externally, a therapist, coach or mentor can only guide you based on their experience, they will project onto you their thoughts on how to deal, cope and manage with the emotion, thoughts and feelings you have created. 


You have the choice to listen and learn and then use what works for you. A good therapist will give you the tools but ultimately you are responsible for your mental immunity – Sorry you have to take responsibility!!!!!

WHAT ABOUT MENTAL IMMUNITY?

Mental immunity is the foundation of emotional resilience.


In the same way in which a cold or flu can derail the health of someone who is already ill, a small setback or troubling thought can do the same to someone who is not mentally immune.



Mental immunity is what happens when we condition our minds to not only expect fearful thoughts or external challenges, but to look for the lessons and understand where that story and fear comes from and investigating the truth in it. It is shifting one's objective in life from avoiding pain to building meaning, recognising that pain will be some part of the journey regardless. Very much like how we build physical immunity.

So if you accept physical immunity, why don’t you want metal immunity?

We project our thoughts to make connection and avoid rejection, often when someone is negative and hurtful towards us, we blame that person or situation for making us feel the way we do, when in fact no one can make you feel bad, you create that feeling based on your experience from birth to the present day.



No baby is born with anxiety, lack of confidence or the want to destroy their body, it is all learnt and so are the feelings.



Mental immunity is not being able to resist or deny negative thoughts, it is being able to observe them without acting on them, or automatically believing they represent reality.



When we have mental immunity, we are able to become a third party observer, a critic friend to our thoughts and feelings. We can identify what we need, what we don't, and what really matters to us. 
 

However before we can do that, we need to understand WHY those thoughts and feelings exist, because we don’t all act and react the same



How can one person fear flying whilst another throws themselves out of a plane for fun?
 

When we become more capable of tolerating the thoughts that scare us, through the understanding of their foundation, we become less reactive and fear based and we lean in, looking for the lesson. The more we can learn and move into the unfamiliar the quicker we move from surviving to thriving.


Frequently, there is an unhealed root association with recurring thoughts we have, or feelings that keep coming up.


Being able to process these uncomfortable sensations will not only help us overcome singular issues but progress our lives forward in other ways, too.

Are those pills helping?

Breakdown or Breakthrough

When I had the breakdown, I suffered with thoughts of lack of self-worth, being different, not being good enough, that somehow I was not worthy of even being here.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

The answer I was told was to take pills and talk about it, using the same tools to fix the physical to fix the mental,  but would you use a saw to hammer a nail in?
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Like many of my clients, the issue wasn’t the issue, it was the feeling that was created inside me, which was my decoding of what I believed was my reality – which in fact I manifested.

UNDERSTANDING IS POWER - SAY

1. I create my reality


2. Everything the good and the bad


3. I am responsible for my life


4. I am good enough right now


5. I am willing to face fear and smile

When I understood WHY I act and re-act in the way I do, when I accepted I am the only one who can change those feelings, when I stopped blaming others and projecting outwardly and I went inside and started to do the work, with no excuses, only then, when I did the work and found my way back to me could I accept these truths.


Only then did I started to bring people into my life those who supported my mental immunity

TOP TIPS - START TODAY

1.    Adopt an attitude of progress, not perfection.



Little changes in how you act and react to situations and choosing not to react in a way that doesn’t serve you, overtime you will manifest a happier life.

 

2.    Be careful not to identify with that which you struggle

 

When you say I have Anxiety, I am a smoker, I am stupid, I am ugly,  I am not good enough – Your mind will take that in and project and manifest everything to support that, so change the words and change the feeling.

 

3.    Stop trying to eradicate fear

 

No one is happy all the time, if someone says they have created the most perfect life and they are never sad, they are either lying or not growing and will at some point break. Own the fear, walk into it with a smile and look for the lessons. Your body and mind will support you.

 

 "A butterfly cannot become a butterfly until it goes through the painful process of transformation"



4.    Interpret "weird" “different “or upsetting thoughts as lessons



Be an investigator when you get that thought, ask “Where did that belief come from?” “Is it true?”

 

5.    Be willing to see change

 

Change doesn’t mean changing who you are, the real you – change and transformation is about changing the angle in which you view a problem or indeed yourself.



Take the mask off now and stop trying to fit in with other people’s projections of their reality and start to create the life you truly want, stop feeding the virus of perfection or needing to change who you are to fit into a life you don't truly want or need. 

Like the butterfly, that can be painful because it means you have to take responsibility for that change and many people aren’t willing to do that, but would you rather stay in your pain now or with help push through it and feel better

 

6.    Imagine what you would do with your life if fear were no object



Imagine the life you want, where does that fear come from which stops you achieving it?



Then decide to say “NO MORE - I DO NOT ACCEPT THIS AS MY REALITY”, say it now, out loud, believe it and see how your body reacts



"A Mansion starts it’s life by laying the foundations, then placing each brick in place, before furnishing it".



You can’t build an amazing life without understanding how to create firm foundations.



 7.      Be present.

 

Anxiety is projecting a future that hasn’t happened, depression is basing that future on the past.

 

 The past can’t be changed, and the future is yours to create 

Just for getting this far - Here's a Gift

How to Journal Like a Boss and Morning Mantra Meditation Course for FREE
Sign up now

 https://mylc.thinkific.com/courses/journallikeaboss


At checkout use discount coupon JLAB5 – there are limited coupons available so don’t wait.

Find out this process can kick start your immunity

Wanna go all in?

Why not book a free clarity call with me at

http://booking.makeyourlifecount.co.uk


You can have it all but it all starts with unlocking your own personal greatness

by Marcus Matthews 11 February 2025
I stumbled upon a problem - The problem was what if you can't create the environment in the body for the mind to function
ADHD the Unseen Struggle
by Marcus Matthews 5 February 2025
ADHD doesn't have to be a struggle, in fact like Menopause and PTSD, ADHD is really an adaptive response to a change in your environment, in this blog I discuss the unseen struggle many face and offer a solution to freedom.
Fake News
by Marcus Matthews 22 January 2025
Have you trusted people and they have turned out to be fake, taken all your energy and you can't trust anymore?In this blog I discuss how you can ensure that people don't take advantage of you
New Years Resolutions 2025
by Marcus Matthews 1 January 2025
How do you ensure your New Years Resolutions continue?In this blog I discuss how you can keep consistant all year long
ADHD a Response not a disorder
by Marcus Matthews 30 December 2024
Why would our body and mind create ADHD - It's a natural response to an unnatural world - Let's dive in
Outwitting the Devil by Napolean Hill
by Marcus Matthews 11 December 2024
Napolean Hills book Think and Grow Rich is one of the worlds leading sel development books, but Outwitting the Devil is the truth about why you are stuck.
Executive Break Down
by Marcus Matthews 25 November 2024
You can work as hard as you like but if the environment isn't right then you will never succeed.
Generational trauma is real
by Marcus Matthews 18 November 2024
This video was from a Keynote talk on the 16th November 2024 at The Mecure Hotel Abbotswell Chester
Alterantive healthcare near me
by Marcus Matthews 14 October 2024
If you are looking for an alternative to therapy you have come to the right place, in this blog I discuss why trusting the mainstream may be harmful to your mental health
Why are men lonely
by Marcus Matthews 3 October 2024
Loneliness is key to growth, before we can truly heal we need to find ourselves, in this blog I discuss what it takes to break free
More posts
Share by: